Wherein Brad McBride
describes his 25+ year battle with insomnia*,
Tinnitus, the concept of 'virtual dreaming' as a relaxation sleep-aid
and the trials and tribulations of running an Internet based business.
*Insomnia
can be an indication of a serious underlying health condition.
Our opinions are in no way intended to be taken as medical
advice. If you feel your sleep issue warrants it please
seek the advice of a qualified physician or sleep professional.
July 22nd, 2010
Can't Hear
Yourself Think? Maybe it's a Good Thing...
Sometime late last century I was at a bar
in San Diego with a girlfriend of yore. It was October 31st
so there was the obligatory Halloween party atmosphere... a
band, unhealthy h'orderves, and costumed drunk people. In
the din of the club my date tilted in my general direction
and semi-yelled "The band stinks!". Or that is what I
thought I heard as my hearing was affected by the dull roar
and the rubber alien head mask I was wearing. But, being a
well-trained date, I took my cue and we left the bar.
Outside the bar I asked her why she thought the band stunk.
She corrected me. She did not say 'the band stinks'... she
said 'I can't hear myself think'. Later that
night, as we walked along the sands of the Pacific, a much
more pleasant sound was heard. The sound of ocean waves. It
was just as loud as the club noise but much more pleasing to
our ears.
Have you ever stood next to an ocean,
with waves crashing, and felt a sense of peace wash over
you? Maybe you have looked out a window on a rainy day and
felt that 'far away' sleepy feeling. Some nature sounds
produce tones that mask distracting noises. Audio folks have
attached colorful names to this phenomena such as white
noise, pink noise, brown noise, etc. While we know these
sounds mask other audible noises I feel they also mask the
inner sounds we create in our own minds. These sounds take
the form of not noise, but thoughts. Thoughts that worry us.
Thoughts that keep us awake. I believe our big human brains
naturally mute these thoughts when enveloped in the right
audio environment ... like hearing ocean waves.
Here are a few examples of white, pink
and brown noise melding into nature sounds:
White Noise
becomes a rain shower:
Pink Noise
becomes a waterfall:
Brown Noise
becomes a wind storm:
Why do nature sounds mute not only
external noise but internal mental chatter? I don't know.
Maybe it the vastness of the audio input to our brains. Much
like looking at the ocean tends to put our lives in
perspective, hearing the ocean can also overwhelm our day to
day concerns.
The cliché 'I can't hear myself think'
has negative overtones. It is usually applies to a very loud
place that you no longer want to be. But, just maybe, there
is an upside to it. Over-thinking can be an insomniac's
worst trait. An overactive mind has led to countless
sleepless nights for me personally and there was a time that
I would have done anything to be able to say , 'I can't hear
myself think'. Nature sounds, with their innate
ability to mask our thoughts... can make that happen.